I’m a girl who rarely wears makeup or dresses up, so for me to put on heels like this is a rare and special occasion. I didn’t have any sexy shoes of my own, so I borrowed some very spiky ones from a friend. And I went down like a sack of bricks. I was able to walk down the hallway un-assisted but not very much further. The negligee looked good, though. I don’t see anything wrong with a woman embracing her sexuality or wanting to look good. It’s not always my thing but I always feel womanly when I am dressed to the nines. I know Ian likes it and I think every man feels special when his woman womanizes herself for him. That being said, I don’t think it should be an ultimatum situation of “or else,” (which I’ve faced). That is demeaning. The choice is empowering. And I think that’s the difference. Now enjoy this sexy girl I found off of the internet.